8. Mindfulness practice is stress-free and relaxing.
No, the practice is not always stress-free and relaxing; it sometimes involves experiencing more stress for a meaningful purpose. The mindfulness-based approach is one of the useful ways for relaxing the mind and body. However, the process of mindfulness training may not always be relaxing. At times, practicing mindfulness can bring up old painful memories that create a lot of stress, that some may not be well prepared to confront alone. It is not uncommon for people to have the wrong attitude in mindfulness practice, like the unrealistic expectation (using mindfulness) to be totally free from stress or compulsively trying to control things in life. The unhelpful attitude naturally generates more stress. That is why, it is often emphasized in mindfulness training, “Mindfulness is not a technique to get rid of stress; it’s an approach to help us to understand and make peace with stress.” In fact, in certain situations, like exposure therapy to manage social anxiety, one needs to experience more stress (supported by mindfulness-based approach) for a long-term happiness. That is stressful, right? But it is a good stress; the type of stress that eventually leads to less stress. For people with severe mental health disorders (schizophrenia, bipolar disorders, depression with psychosis), using mindfulness as self-help is usually not helpful; it often generates more stress and confusion. A better option is to seek help from mental health professionals (e.g. psychiatrist) to stabilize the disorder. Once emotionally stabilized, guided mindfulness practice (preferably by a psychotherapist trained in mindfulness-based therapies) is a useful option.
9. Mindfulness is the best treatment for clinical depression.
Even if one is keen and suitable to use mindfulness to complement depression treatment, it is better to be guided by someone who understands depression well and is trained in both mindfulness and psychotherapy.
10. Mindfulness is suitable and safe for everyone.
So, what else should we be mindful of in mindfulness for mental health?
About the authors:
Dr. Phang Cheng Kar (M.D.) is a consultant psychiatrist and mindfulness-based therapist. He is the creator of the MINDFULGym program and president of the Malaysia Association for Mindfulness Practice & Research.
Dr. Song Beng Kah (Ph.D.) is a molecular geneticist by training. He is interested in mindfulness practice ever since his first meditation retreat during undergraduate years. With scientific skepticism and a belief that every problem has a solution, he tries to explore and learn more about ''mindfulness'' through writing.
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